Modern Scams · 2000s – present, sharper every year
The Grandparent Scam
The phone rings at dawn. A frightened voice says 'Grandma, it's me — I'm in jail, please don't tell Mom.' Wire the bail before you can breathe.
The Confidence Game
Maria Konnikova
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The short of it
The Grandparent Scam is a modern scams that dates to the 2000s – present, sharper every year. The phone rings at dawn. A frightened voice says 'Grandma, it's me — I'm in jail, please don't tell Mom.' Wire the bail before you can breathe. The tell is usually simple: emotional calls demanding secrecy from other family. If you remember one thing, remember this — hang up and call your family member directly.
Warning Signs
- Emotional calls demanding secrecy from other family.
- Requests to pay bail by wire, gift card, or courier.
- A voice that sounds close, but somehow slightly off.
Protect Yourself
- Hang up and call your family member directly.
- Agree on a family safe word for emergencies.
- No real lawyer or bail bondsman asks for gift cards.
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The Confidence Game
Maria Konnikova
Why we fall for it — every time. A definitive study of the con artist's mind.
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